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Goes Without Saying

sephy and wing

what doesn't kill you makes you spiral...

what doesn't kill you makes you spiral...

UN-ROT YOUR BRAIN (slow down and get your life back)

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UN-ROT YOUR BRAIN (slow down and get your life back) 04 Nov 2026

hi!!! this episode corrupted TWICE and i had to go back to the raw file and re-edit three times ! TINY VIOLIN spiralling on: i kind of can't remember now but basically just the usual, baileys, slowing down, how i rebuilt my life from 6 months of sui<3dal ide<3ation. see u around !!! @makesyouspiral

surviving the winter rot 26 Oct 2026

EP010 - What if it gets bad again? Spiralling on: non-negotiable self-care rituals, seasonal depression, insomnia, joymaxxing, and taylor swift. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Being Misunderstood is a Skill Issue 18 Oct 2026

EP009 - Is being perceived worse than being disliked? Spiralling on: the looking glass self, nervous system regulation, the difference between intent and impact, and how suffocating other people's opinions can be. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The Politics of "Chic" 12 Oct 2026

EP008 - Are we policing one another into sameness? Spiralling on: the collapse of language and the class privilege of 'chic', micro trends, and the infiltration of digital discourses into our real world. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

the real secrets to getting your shit together 04 Oct 2026

EP007 - What if you're too tired and avoidant for a full reset? Spiralling on: seasonal depression and body dysmorphia, realistic strategies to get back to life, and adopting the bare minimum of self-care. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The Autumn Reading List for Weird and Lazy Girls 27 Sep 2026

EP006 - What's 'horrifying' about vengeful female characters hurting men? This week I scoured my bookshelves for an essential reading list. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Everything I learned in my 20s 20 Sep 2026

EP005 - Wtf is wrong with me? This week I had a crisis over gaining perspective, Ed Sheeran, and men doing ASMR. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠. Follow on ⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠.

You should have been meaner 14 Sep 2026

EP004 - Are you ready to stand up for yourself? This week I processed the last summer of my 20s, unpacked some childhood behavioural patterns, and got attacked by the tarot readers on my algorithm. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠. Follow on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠.

a crash out recovery guide 06 Sep 2026

EP003 - How did I get out of a seven month slump? This week I had insomnia, a few glasses of wine, and an existential crisis over TikTok. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠YouTube⁠. Follow on ⁠Instagram⁠.

Shut up and eat your fucking figs 30 Aug 2026

EP002 - Did I have doubts about getting engaged? This week I ate a tonne of bagels, bought expired contact lenses from an old man in Brooklyn, and got engaged!!! Looks like anything is a 45 minute podcast episode if you spiral hard enough. @makesyouspiral Watch on YouTube. Follow on Instagram.

Everyone is lonely, no one is alone 23 Aug 2026

EP001 - Is your loneliness your fault? This week I had an existential crisis over my endless love for GWS, replied back to everyone I've been ignoring for a year, and talked to myself a lot at home on my own. @makesyouspiral Watch on ⁠YouTube⁠. Follow on ⁠Instagram⁠.

hi 06 Aug 2026

Xxx after the first 5-10 mins it becomes more bearable I swear. I don’t have any idea on what this should look like or if I find a new name and change the way it looks eventually etc and I’d love to know what you think about all. Just wanted to get back asap. Thank you love you x Well and truly wingin it

how to not hate yourself & your body: for dummies 22 Dec 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on the end of the year, life lessons, body-image and self-acceptance, olivia dean and raye, AI, and the death of podmas. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

new crushes & bad brains: off the record 17 Nov 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on spiralling, jacob elordi as frankenstein's creature, accidents at work that aren't your fault, birthday surprises, and bringing back crying on the pod. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

loneliness & bad friends: it's not me it's you 10 Nov 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on lucy sheridan (the world's first comparison coach), resentment and conflict, losing touch, catching up, and finding real connection in your 20s. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

is dating men embarrassing?: Insecure Boyfriends et al 03 Nov 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on dating your co-worker, paying for first-dates, controlling men, and david harbour. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

normalise being evil: ozempic, jealousy, & cheating 27 Oct 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on shame and internalisation, social media stalking, unspoken resentment, body-image, and selfishness. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

real-time mental health crisis: we are so back 19 Oct 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on taking time off, the reality of mental illness, longevity and authenticity. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

FEELING BEHIND & TOO LATE: the summer i turned expired 17 Aug 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on running out of time, expectations and high standards, graduation anxiety, and comparison. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

YOUR INNER CHILD IS DEAD: (your labubu won't love you back) 04 Aug 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on microtrends, nostalgia, consumerism, online fashion discourse, and the misconceptions around 'honouring' your inner child. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

lost & lonely: Overthinker in Crisis! 28 Jul 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on contagious negative spirals, eating disorders, and mindsets, struggling with identity and direction, and developing a sense of self. ✷see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwingshop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

self-hatred & self-sabotage: to be a woman is to spiral 20 Jul 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on self-awareness v. self-criticism, the fear of failure v. fear of success, and being so smart it becomes stupid. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

social burnout & cancelling plans: (the call is coming from inside the house) 13 Jul 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on running on empty, saying 'no', guilt, pressure, being drained, and being draining. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

advice & dating in your 20s: the manchild keeps the score 07 Jul 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on bad decisions and bad advice, choosing chaos, life lessons, & navigating dating in your 20s. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

sexuality & sexual awakenings: off the record 29 Jun 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on hear-me-outs, childhood crushes, and ABLISA. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

the Myth of Funny (Ugly) Men: the hot man's redemption arc 23 Jun 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on hotness-gap relationships, entitled men, beauty standards, and the subjectivity of attraction. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

narcissists, 'saying no', & power dynamics: cult leader dupe! 15 Jun 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on exploitation & conformity, consent, reality tv culture, weaponised wellness and 'therapy speak'. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

can friends survive a political divide?: new enemy unlocked 19 May 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on opinions, morals, and political differences, managing expectations for yourself and others, failure, redirection, and knowing when to change course. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

trauma bonding & problematic lovers: what doesn't kill you makes you cheat? 11 May 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on transactional dynamics in relationships, trauma cycles & attachment styles, resentment, desire, & 'perfect harmony'. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

success & the myth of happiness: dreams found dead 04 May 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on doing what you're told, losing sight of your ambitions, finding fulfillment in the small things, and Hamilton. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

privilege blindness: a reality check? in this economy? 27 Apr 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on privilege, class, nepo babies, and the myth of 'raw talent'. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

dating types & turn-offs: off the record 20 Apr 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on intelligence, feeling unsupported, finding your life's purpose, and short men. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

toxic traits & coping mechanisms: self-awareness or die trying 13 Apr 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on jealousy, eating disorders, social media comparison, and anger. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

forgive or forget: confrontation is a love language 06 Apr 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on redemption, arguments, relationships, and the problem with forgiveness. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

red flags & low standards: microdosing hell by settling 30 Mar 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on situationships, single parents, and not settling for scraps. see more * youtube@sephyandwing * instagram@sephyandwing * tiktok @sephyandwing shop * www.sephyandwing.co.uk

unlocking self-acceptance: getting your personality back 24 Mar 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on authenticity, confidence, and finding your personality. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

"pregnant & he's watching porn": off the record 17 Mar 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on porn and the patriarchy, boundaries and communication in relationships, and the normalisation of sexual exploitation. see more * youtube@sephyandwing * instagram@sephyandwing * tiktok @sephyandwing shop * www.sephyandwing.co.uk

confidence or the comfort zone: choose your fighter 10 Mar 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on stagnating and holding yourself back. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

accepting your mediocrity: self-sabotage girls unite 03 Mar 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on mirrorballing, masking, and defence mechanisms, identity crises, self-sabotaging, and a fear of failure vs. fear of success. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

why your inner child is BORED: the art of being selfish 24 Feb 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on learning how to take time for yourself, silly little hobbies. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

wanting everything, doing nothing: indecision paralysis & the fig tree 21 Feb 2025

*EPISODE FROM 12TH AUGUST 2024* podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on learning how to be confident in your decisions, identity and our chosen paths, abandoned dreams and being "unrealistic", fear, anxiety, shame, pressure, and entering your Omelette Appreciation Era (2.0). ✷ see more ✷ www.youtube.com/@sephyandwing ✷ www.instagram.com/sephyandwing ✷ www.tiktok.com/@sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

'Thought Daughter' delusions: intellectualisation is ruining your life 17 Feb 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on hypervigilance and overthinking, self-criticism and harsh introspection, delusion, and denying how you feel. ✷ see more ✷ youtube@sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

how to date straight men: challenge level impossible 10 Feb 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on the dating landscape in 2025, the horrors of educating men in their 20s, accepting the bare minimum, the vulnerability of infatuation, and everyday misogyny. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

THE BIG RESET #3: comparison is the thief of your hottest years 03 Feb 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on a HEALTHY RESET for 2025, feeling behind, insecurities, jealousy, overthinking, and male therapists. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

THE BIG RESET #2: baby's first gratitude journal 27 Jan 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on a HEALTHY RESET for 2025, performative 'self-care', routines, habits, bed-rotting, and Mel and Sue. ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

THE BIG RESET #1: death of the flop era 20 Jan 2025

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on a HEALTHY RESET for 2025, building self-esteem and positive habits, self-care, fresh starts, and learning to let go of the pressure to be good enough. ✷ shop DIRTEA with code 'GOESWITHOUTSAYING' at dirteaworld.com ✷ see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

new year, same insecurities & existential dread: nobody's coming, harry 30 Dec 2024

podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on INs and OUTs for 2025 and new year manifesting. ✷ see more ✷ www.youtube.com/@sephyandwing ✷ www.instagram.com/sephyandwing ✷ www.tiktok.com/@sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

with love, from sephy & wing: podmas #25 25 Dec 2024

merry podmas! festive podmothers sephy & wing enter a Big Sleigh: carolling on our proudest moments of the year & endless love for harry. ✷ see more ✷ www.youtube.com/@sephyandwing ✷ www.instagram.com/sephyandwing ✷ www.tiktok.com/@sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

overwhelming expectations, underwhelming reality: podmas #24 24 Dec 2024

merry podmas! festive podmothers sephy & wing enter a Big Sleigh: carolling on the reality of christmas, festive plans, chaos, difficult families, and making the most of the day. ✷ see more ✷ www.youtube.com/@sephyandwing ✷ www.instagram.com/sephyandwing ✷ www.tiktok.com/@sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk

vision boards & new year rituals: podmas #23 23 Dec 2024

merry podmas! festive podmothers sephy & wing enter a Big Sleigh: carolling on new crushes, plans for the end of the year, resetting and vision boarding. ✷ see more ✷ www.youtube.com/@sephyandwing ✷ www.instagram.com/sephyandwing ✷ www.tiktok.com/@sephyandwing shop ✷ www.sephyandwing.co.uk